2 posts tagged “gay”

Welcome to sunny California, world renowned for its tall palm trees, beautiful beaches, wineries, movie studios and one the worst Elementary, middle, and high school systems on the face of planet earth.  The reason:  playing politics and weird experimentation with the children has overridden any care for the education of them.

Every one of us who lives here (particularly those of us with children) have heard stories of large numbers of people graduating who cannot read or pass simple exit exams on what they were supposed to have learned and on and on.  I remember on story I heard years ago where the children in one area were failing a pretty standard high school exit exam miserably so the proposed solution………..make the test easier?

A quick story to help you understand my disgust: 

After I graduated high school I left for military service and went to travel the world.  I came back on leave to visit my old high school and the coaches and teachers who I had built a bond with.  I arrived at the school to find that all of the teachers I had considered (and still consider) to have been the good teachers had left the school.  There were no coaches as the school which had n illustrious sports history had eliminated all sports.

The weirdest part about walking the campus was that while I was wandering the campus confused many if not most of the students seemed to be wandering the campus looking just as confused as I was.  This was midday in the middle of the school year.  I heard different bells ring and saw some of the kids going to classrooms.  In the classrooms there were small pockets of teenagers who seemed to be doing there own thing while some person in front 9I assume to be a teacher) lectured.

I finally asked one of the students what was going on.  The answer was ridiculous.  The school was an experiment to see if children learn better in an environment where they have no books, no mandatory class attendance, no homework, no sports, and very few tests.  I asked if this was working and in the words of one kid, “It was cool at first, but this really sucks.  I want to transfer.” 

As a side note, I have a relative who graduated from the same high school, who has a diploma that looks just like mine, who could not read or write any better than the average kindergartener until as an adult his wife taught him.

This brings me to my point.  In Alameda California there is a controversial proposal creating a huge disruption among the parents.  The proposal is to add curriculum about sexual orientation and gender identification to the curriculum.

So let me get this straight:  the school systems in California can’t get reading, writing, English, math and science right, but now they are qualified to teach my child sexuality.  That ought to turn out well.  I told you that little story a above to set the stage for one key point I think is being missed.  I PAY TAXES AND SEND MY CHILDREN TO SCHOOL TO LEARN TO READ, WRITE, GET EDUCATED, AND PREPARED FOR COLLEGE IF YOU CANNOT DO THAT RIGHT YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS TRYING TO ADD A WHOLE BUNCH OF OTHER STUFF OF ANY KIND.

All over California strange experiments have been done for years with our children and all kinds of weird ideas have been voiced al because our school systems and our teacher’s unions want to use our children as political ping pong balls instead of just doing what we (I) pay them to do.   STOP EXPERIMENTING WITH OUR CHILDREN AND JUST TEACH THEM ENGLISH, MATH, SCIENCE, AND SO ON.

There is this ongoing list of things that they always want to add that clearly are politically motivated and that would be a discussion if we already had reasonable results.  The California school system is the laughing stock of the whole planet.  HOW DARE YOU TELL ME YOU ARE BETTER QUALIFIED TO DO MY JOB AS A PARENT WHEN YOU ARE FAILING AT YOUR JOBS AS TEACHERS?

The entire reasoning for this addition to the curriculum has been defined as an attempt to stop bullying through a gained understanding of sexual orientation and gender identification.

Another short story, my son was new to one of California’s illustrious public schools and was stabbed in the forehead with metal scissors by an angry 9 year old.  As far as I or anyone know my son is not homosexual or transgender and was only guilty of being the new kid having an encounter with what turned out to be the class bully.  The school investigated and discovered several such incidents with this bully and other children that had gone unnoticed until now.

I was obviously concerned and spoke to the principal whose response was that they had spoken to the parents of the child.  SPOKEN TO THE PARENTS, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?  I suggested possibly separating the child from the other children for a while to undergo some kind of counseling until such a time it was safe for the rest of the children and then reintroducing the child to the school as I thought that was the least that should be done in light of all of the children that have been wandering into schools and killing everyone.

I tell this story to illustrate that the school system has no clue about what to do about bullies.  Those of us who experienced bullies in elementary, middle and high school (or possibly were the bullies) have a pretty good idea that lack of information and understanding was not the problem.  Usually the problems are far deeper than education about one group or other would solve.  I am also quite sure that information about sexual orientation and gender identification would not have saved any of the children from this bully because as far as anyone can tell at this age, none of the children were bullied for this reason.  The problem with bullying lies in the inability of the schools to properly deal with the bullies until after the bullets (or scissors) are flying and the bloody bodies of our children are being carried away.

All this to say to our governments, including school boards and our teachers:  I DON’T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT ANYTHING BUT HOW WE ARE IMPROVING MATH, SCIENCE, ENGLISH ETC. UNTIL YOU GET THOSE SUBJECTS RIGHT.  I UNDERSTAND THERE ARE BAD PARENTS OUT THERE THAT ARE NOT DOING THEIR JOB, BUT DON’T NEGLECT YOURS TO DO OURS.  SPEND ALL THAT POLITICAL ENERGY TRYING TO REFORM THE AGENCIES THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HOLDING THE PARENTS ACCOUNTABLE TO DOING THEIR JOB AND STICK TO YOURS!

This morning as I went through my morning ritual of watching the news from several different sources and then getting into my car to listen to the local public broadcasting station in the San Francisco, Oakland, San Jose, Silicon Valley area, I noticed an interesting phenomenon:  the news was dominated by one story.  The story was gay marriage.  

I was okay with this at first because no matter which side of the argument for or against gay marriage one is on, it is a newsworthy topic of relevance.  The problem I had was that our local public broadcasting station took it over the top.  I will explain.

I eagerly went to my tiny but efficient commuter car to spend my twelve dollars in gas to get to work and listen to a mostly impartial view of the news as I usually get on my local public broadcasting station in my travels.  I felt largely ill informed this morning getting into my car because most of the stories I was really interested in were not touched in any detail because the big story in my area was the marriages that took place yesterday.

I turned on the radio only to get approximately forty-five minutes of human interest stories relating to gay marriage with occasional news squeezed in. 

I suppose for some this is a monumental moment and for some this is a terrible moment, but for me I simply wanted to hear the news.  The urgent, pressing, and life changing news.

What is going on in Iraq and Afghanistan?  What is going on with this increase in oil production promised by Saudi Arabia, will it actually help us or not?  What is going on in the elections?  What is going on Capitol Hill?  What is going on with the economy?  What is going on with the value of the dollar?  Is the government going to do anything to keep us all from loosing our homes?  What is going on in al of the states that were flooding yesterday?  What parts of our state are burning to the ground today?  Am I headed into a huge traffic jam?  What is our governor and our state government going to do about the sinking ship that is our state budget?  And on and on and on…

Is this marriage story really that big of a story that it completely eliminates the need for other news?  Maybe I am the only person today who was interested in all of these other things, with all of the supporters of this doing a victory lap and all of those in opposition circling the wagons to fight against it.  I guess with that kind of emotion flying around it is hard to see anything else, but in my mind, people are dying, starving, loosing their jobs, loosing their homes, going broke paying for gas, and two are running for president.

I also suppose that there may be need for a diversion from the stress of focusing on all of the stress that is normally related to our news lately, but I am interested in these other things.  I would venture to say that in my mind these other stories are at the least as relevant and in my mind a bit more relevant and should get equal time at the least. 

I also have to wonder what motivation the radio station that I usually listen to for impartial views has for letting human interest stories related to gay marriage dominate large blocks of the airtime.  I can only conclude that it has sunk to pandering to one side of the argument to get more listeners or it already has taken a side and is trying to campaign for that cause. 

These are things I expected from the mainstream media that is funded by commercials, but this usually is the one place I have been able to count on for somewhat impartial vies on things.  I like to hear both sides of the arguments and have my preexisting beliefs challenged.  I like facts and opposing facts.  I have been a listener to this station to receive balanced news not propaganda.

I am not sure what I am going to listen too on my ride to work anymore, I suppose I will have to find something more impartial on the internet in the form of a Podcast to download each morning or something of that nature and play through my car stereo.

I am not saying that the gay marriage story is not a good news story, I am saying don't get stuck on one subjsct when there is so much of deep relevence going on.